Most times our expectations in relationship as young people never came through, while waiting for best moment of smiles, laughter, play, appreciation, appraisal and gratitude, the reverse seen to be the case. I want to believe everyone born of a woman that got water and blood running through his or her veins must have been there before where things seem not to work out as planed or expected due to incompatibility, lack of understanding and trust, immaturity, unfaithfulness, problems with individual differences either with background situations, lack of various temperament comprehension, different would view, social exposure with different scope of life and so forth, which has shrink our hope and happiness, which eventually caused and the fallout and heartbreak as will often call it.
This will amaze you to know that the pain you have ever been through is the best for you and should be grateful, though I know this is going to be hard for some of you out there to believe what am saying right now but I will soon prove to you because everything that has ever happen is not by mistake or a coincident like some of us think most of the time, not realizing that, these experiences are done deal that has been even before time began. The devil might have it meant for our fall but in the other hand was allowed by God for character development making us masters at mending.
There are three things I want to share with us which I personally call ‘’My Miracle Wao!’’ and this mindset has been working for me and I believe it’s going to be of great help to your situation and that’s the reason why I want to share these with you. This is not necessary a doctrine but a guide to aiding few persons out there, who must have had similar scenario in his or her journey in life.
Most of the things I would be posting on my site and discussing in my YouTube video channel soonest, would be dealing with our physiological and psychological behaviors, which are mostly my personal experience and that’s the more reason why I know is going to be of aid to you as you simply implement some of my tips as the case might be for you and like a say, its not a doctrine to be totally anchored upon.
My Miracle Wao!
Battle:
In any field of endeavor or discipline, there is always an adventure and whenever you venture into anything, you arrive on a platform, which is to say; where ever you found yourself, there are always a battle to fight and it must be fought to the finished line. This miracle wao! will not only help your relationship but all areas of your life if only you understand how it works because those battles were never created by you, they were there before you came but failure to fight to finish, it will review the real pain in your personal life, relationship, marriage, your home and hurting pending experience yet emerge. In this context of our pain and gain post about our relationships, let’s look at your partner’s background dealing with cultural believe system, faith base, dream, vision, passion likes, ambition etc which may be contrary to yours but the truth remains that you can only accept and improve on them if it must work out via compassionate compromise but which will definitely not change them totally.
Talking about partner here, I do not only mean that special one in your life but generally talking about everyone you have a chord of network with and don’t want to lose because of the values involved. So the thin line between weather to shy away or stay to fight, is the battle line and that’s one of my tips that determine our success in every relationship because the forces here could be natural or unseen and if you must be victorious in this battle, then you must act as a fool in disguise to win, and whenever you do this, your body do not go sick about other’s behavior and attitude, your Peace, Joy and Happiness comes up and life is good and beautiful.
Solve It:
One of the reasons why we surfer much in situations that does not carry weight is simply because we say to ourselves, am not the cause and if it can’t be fixed then let it be. So we remain and allowed the situation affect our minds directly or indirectly as long as we are on the same platform and things keep going wrong. My Miracle wao! to solve it simply states that; wherever we found ourselves, there are always problems to solve and our success in this matter is for us to create a solution and not shifting the blame, complain and excuses just to exempt ourselves from it. Despite the ego a man cultivates by defaults from birth, the truth remains that; whatever a man loves he goes and die for. 
I could remember vividly a company I worked years back and after my employment, one of the days I went to the convenient and discovered there were no wipes, I alone knew how I was able to clean up myself that day even when I thought the person in charge is still procuring items for purchase for the replacement of the exhausted materials in the convenient and that happen to me again and I say to myself. this is a wrong situation here and the next day, I replaced few of the items from my money bag and life was good with everyone again. Think about my experience, if I had left it that way because am not responsible for the replacement, I would have been messed up severally again. Now, take just few second and think about your relationship life with everyone around you and the question is; do you have issues, if yes, have you been able to identify with it, if yes, what have you done so far to solve it? Until this mind sight is built in our minds, we remain local champions and die slowly with our ego, pride, self interest and unforgiveness.
My Miracle Wao! Is for a take away and my take on this is to say that, any platform you find yourself, if your relationship of any kind must workout as expected by you, then you must look out for hidden problems to solve in that relationship. Its obvious that we are all wired differently and we react and respond to situations in different ways. What one may wave and not consider to be weighty, the other may see it as a heavier matter. To bring a balance to this, time must be created no matter how small and get the hooks loosen. This sounds crazy right! most especially when you are seeing no fault from your end but if this must work out as expected, we must deploy compassionate compromise all the time and you will be grateful you did because your expectations are all on the other side to claim but still waiting for you to cross the bridge of conflict.
Impact:
When a vehicle is said to have head on collision with another, the impact is always a disaster on both, which might create a scar on the body most of the times but the impact am referring to here in related to humanity and is always from the inside out.
The works of impact in any relationship does more than natural comprehension; it creates an everlasting imprint on the minds of the beneficiaries and keeps them alive there for as long as they live. Many young people do not ask questions why the elderly once today do not always talk about the future any more but refer us to history where their strength was; the reason is simply the reflection of impact. Impact may be positive or negative which depends on what you project to others for a take in. I heard lots of people said is not all relationship that should end up in a home but little do they know that, they may break up relationship and go separate ways but impact do not break up easily but remains and move with them wherever they go.
In this context of my idea, permit me to say that impact is like a needle with a thread used to stitch torn parts of a cloth and when is properly fixed, the needle is taking out but the thread used to amend the turned part of the cloth remains as a landmark for remembrance on the mended part and so is impact. In every relationship, we all came from different background, believe system, individual differences and so on but whatever we are able fix right and to create, would determine how lasting the impact in our individual lives as an imprint of memories would be when we part to meet again. This is simply because of how we affected people’s life positively, not minding who they are, what they have done and where they came from.
Though I know talking about my miracle wao! I would prefer you know that we are all incompatible people trying to be compatible by carrying out sacrifices and compassionate compromises making any relationship a lovely ship to sail with, in order to have a safe landing. It’s will also interest you to know that, that which goes out of pain most of the times, are the true resources of gain. So you must understand that your pain is your gain.
What would you do after now? Just begin to implement this immediately and see how your life and people around you becomes beautiful in all form of relationship. If you find this post helpful, for related questions, comments and your ideas, please do relate with me directly on my contact page above and insert your information and you will be glad you did.
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