The greatest tool for wooing anyone closer than just a friend is to express true love. This means true love is the miracle to soul winning and this is our evangelistic tool.
I discovered that, all my good and close friends today are those initiated with me into this kingdom cult where our Monarch is the head of all principalities. They are my covenant brothers and sisters because of the body and the blood we shared together.
One thing I know that binds us together until this point is True Love. Whenever I mention love, I would not want you to use your dictionary definition of love to justify it but the cross definition. The only way to understand the true meaning of this love is by using the cross definition of Jesus Christ, this can only be gotten by revelation and prophecy. For the testimony of Jesus Christ, is the spirit of prophecy.

Love is not a story to be told but an experience, when you only read about it as a story or history, it looks like something that is long past, just like I hear lots of persons say that love does not exist. This is a clear indication that they thought love is a thing that can expires and not knowing that Love is a person. Scriptures already told us that “God is love” (1 John 4:16) And we have known and believed the love that God hath towards us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him.

True love is a kingdom mystery and can only be understood by the cross definition of Jesus Christ. Every parable Jesus gave, there are deep kingdom mysteries that must be captured about his love which is not usually figured out in almost all of his parables.
Mark 4:9-13
And he said unto them, He that hath ears to hear, let him hear.

And when he was alone, they that were about him with the twelve asked of him the parable.

And he said unto them, unto you it is given to know the mystery of the kingdom of God: but unto them that are without, all these things are done in parables:

That seeing they may see, and not perceive; and hearing they may hear, and not understand; lest at any time they should be converted, and their sins should be forgiven them.

And he said unto them, Know ye not this parable? and how then will ye know all parables?
KJV

It takes a man that love God to be able to guide the seed sowed on his ground in other for the birds of the air not to pick them up, nor allow the sun to scorch them and the cares of this world to choke them but to nurture them well on his good ground. The reason is because God does not waste resources whenever they are deposited into the ground. From creation, all that the father made was good, so there is no ground that is bad, the outcome is determined by our attitude towards the seed we allow into our grounds. Scripture say, Matt 13:25 But while men slept, his enemy came and sowed tares among the wheat, and went his way.
KJV

The reason why most people hardly love accurately is because they had never experienced the true love of God which is actually God himself. The truth is you cannot give what you do not have. True love is a deposit of seed from God and whenever that is received, we need to guide it with jealousy so the enemy do not come to corrupt it on our good grounds. This is where lust and perversion is birthed and all kinds of evil ideologies and philosophies are formed.
Love is patience, Love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud, it does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered and it keeps no records of wrong like I used to do. Above all else, let’s guide the seed of love God gave us which is himself, for God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him.

These points pointed so far can be used to determine the position of a true love. Anytime you see someone doing something outside these positions, is actually trying to sow tares into your good ground and may you not be sleeping while that evil is going on around your space. The moment you realize it, you need no prophet or prophetess to tell you is time to take-off for your life because love is not blind, the eye of love is not double but single and it identify evil because God is constant. That we are more righteous does not increase his love for us, neither reduces it because of our sins, if I was to be the only human on earth, Jesus Christ would have still come and died for me because his love is constant.

When men identify with the constant of God’s love, then 1 Cor. 13, would be fulfill in their lives. Love means saying goodbye to expectations, Love does not play the victim’s role or blame others, Love also includes letting go for good, Love does not require you to continue in a relationship that is obviously not working, break the chain and let go, Love has no room for any evil jealousy except that which is derived from God’s kind of jealousy regards to worship, protection and preservation, Love is the absence of fear, not needing but wanting, Love is an action and not just a feeling of emotion.

It takes a spiritual man or woman that has been fed with his body and partook of his blood to be able to differentiate the thin line between Love and Lust. Anything else outside this Agape love of God we practice in this kingdom is called others. These other love, no matter how they sound to the ears, appears to the eyes are all distractions and at the end of every distractions, there must always be a destructions. Whatever that can distract you outside the Love of God, has the capacity to destroy you if not discerned or decipher immediately.

The reason why most of us fall for something else called love is simply because there are deposit of the enemy’s tares in our lives, that has corrupted the true seed of God in us. Let me illustrate something here, probably it may aid in what I’m trying to pass across.

Whenever a man is counseled by a notorious criminal to join their gang of robbers and he said yes after he must have thought about it, that was possible because he already had that corrupted tares of the enemy sowed on his ground knowingly or unknowingly, may be through direct influence or he inherited it from his linage.

I remember this particular year; my dad returned from the bank and discovered that he was over paid with huge amount of money when he got home. He called us and asked we help him count the money, we did that several time just to be very sure of the excesses, the moment it was obvious and certain, we extracted the difference and returned it back to the bank. Time will not permit me to say things that happened after that act of love, which is still speaking until now even after he has passed on to glory long time. The point I’m trying to make here is this, the enemy succeeded in creating an atmosphere suitable for his evil exploit but the good ground belong to my father, him alone determines what happens there, either to take the money which was not his or denied the tares to be planted while awake. Every ground is a good ground, we determine the changes that happen on it with the decision we make towards the birds, sun scorch and the chokes. This was the reason why the devil deposit was not successfully sowed into his life by the enemy.

Lust and perversion are what we mistaken most of the times to be the Love of God. They are actually a vehement deposit of the devil to destroy our lives and the lives of other in other for souls not to be harvested into the kingdom of Heaven.

When you truly love someone with the love of the father, you will not imaging evil towards that person; evil thoughts are orchestrated from evil tares. You will not molest anyone even when you got every chance like David towards Saul his king but to protect, provide and to preserve.

NB: Kingdom love for soul winning is the mystery of the cross and the embrace of death in order to be able to give life to the lost.